Getting married is one big decision of life and we need to get married only when we feel like we are ready. And there comes a time in every girl’s life when everyone is suggesting them to get married because the eligible age according to the society is exactly their age and many of the girls don’t really feel like getting married because they want to do something more fruitful like being focused on career or they are just not ready to accept all the changes. Here we girls face some basic yet irritating things that only we can understand. And in this article, we will be telling you 6 things only eligible but not ready to get married girls will get. Here, have a look!
1) You’re amongst the only few unmarried people in your group
All of your friends are getting married and you are surrounded by them and their couple goals pictures and sweet talks. Someday you are holding their wedding invitation and for some, you are holding baby shower invitation and that actually becomes a burden to you.
2) Those ‘arranged’ dates
Your parents and relatives are often into making you fix with some random guy. They start to arrange dates for you. And these awkward arranged dates sometimes turn into successful marriage and sometimes it leads to a mess.
3) Maintaining that balance between not leading him on to like you and not being rude or nasty, is a challenge!
The most difficult challenge to be on an arranged date is you have to maintain a balance between not leading him on to like you and not being rude or nasty. It actually becomes a challenge than an arranged date. And maintaining this balance actually makes everything awkward and embarrassing.
4) Weddings are more like a game of hide-and-seek with uncles and aunties.
We are sure, all the girls out there must have some experience with one such aunty and uncles who keep on making your happy single life a total mess by forcing you to get married. They will ask all the questions related to your age, study, work, and skills. And will randomly select a guy from their “dur ka rishtedar” whom they consider to be the eligible match for you. And that is where the hide and seek game begins between you and uncle/aunties.
5) You’re tired of answering questions
People start to ask your age, study qualification, work, position, salary, and dreams. And all of it is just because they are searching for the right and eligible match for their guy.
6) And if you’ve got a boyfriend, you’d prefer to not introduce him to your folks just yet.
This is the most difficult situation when you are eligible but not ready to get married. Because at one side your parents and relative are forcing you to check other guys and on another side, you have a boyfriend, but you do not wanna introduce him to your parents as you yourself are not ready to get married. SUCH CONFUSION!
So, these were the 6 things only eligible but not ready to get married girls will get!